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		<title>So this blog is going to change, a little</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I started this blog, I was going to write strictly about family law. Then I wrote about the election, which tangentially connected. Then I didn&#8217;t write anything for months. One of the reasons was I didn&#8217;t want to write &#8230; <a href="http://www.gtroyp.com/archives/150">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I started this blog, I was going to write strictly about family law. Then I wrote about the election, which tangentially connected. Then I didn&#8217;t write anything for months.</p>
<p>One of the reasons was I didn&#8217;t want to write things that people might find offensive. A lot of what I think is offensive to people. I am not offensive in the I&#8217;m not politically correct kind of way either. I am offensive in that I think things that are not, shall we say, mainstream.</p>
<p>But, I have decided that I am not going to continue to muzzle myself anymore. This is partially because I think I am pretty good at my job now, so I am less worried about losing potential clients because of what I say. It is also because the record is out there for anyone that really looked for it. I have never been particularly completely hidden with my politics, but I have been more discreet that I intend to be.</p>
<p>And the biggest reason for that is this: I think that too many people are not thinking enough about politics, popular culture and everything else. Every thing is knee jerk reactions and sound bite arguments. I have those too. But I hope that I can do something here that is more than that. At least it will be a vast collection of that.</p>
<p>Plus, facebook and twitter just aren&#8217;t good for well thought out arguments. A flame war that I started today was the last straw. I post a silly comment (which I will link to here as soon as I bring it over<sup class='footnote'><a href='#fn-150-1' id='fnref-150-1'>1</a></sup>) and all is well until my right-leaning friends start chiming in. So, I waste an hour of time<sup class='footnote'><a href='#fn-150-2' id='fnref-150-2'>2</a></sup> writing a long, fairly well thought out response to the people making one sentence rejoinders to me.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think they read it.</p>
<p>It was too long. I&#8217;ll own that I was a bit wordy. I&#8217;ll admit that I was a little over the top. But, it was a REAL OPINION. It had thought behind it and a nugget of a real idea at its core. There needs to be more of that.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s more, the comment that started it was something about leaving the States if Rick Perry was elected President. The long note was about what being a citizen means to me. The thing I realized was if I am going to be here, I owe it to myself—and in some way, my country—to speak out. It is all I have: my voice.</p>
<p>So, here goes. I am going to stop thinking about what others might think about me for saying things. I am just going to say them. Carefully, thoughtfully and if all goes well, often.</p>
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<li id='fn-150-1'>Here&#8217;s <a title="It’s okay to talk about leaving…" href="http://www.gtroyp.com/archives/160">the longer argument</a> originally posted as a facebook note. <span class='footnotereverse'><a href='#fnref-150-1'>&#8617;</a></span></li>
<li id='fn-150-2'>Which I can tell you how much that costs now. I really should think about that before I start writing, but I couldn&#8217;t stop myself. <span class='footnotereverse'><a href='#fnref-150-2'>&#8617;</a></span></li>
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